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The journey: Why we’re supporting the charity, Mind.

Elliot • 15 March 2019

This simple, austere black saloon car holds a lot of sentimental value. As it’s unlikely that I’ll have any children to hand Bessy onto, it’s very important that I build a legacy for her. A higher purpose perhaps?

For that reason, as well as restoring her for the road, I want to use her story to raise awareness about mental health.

In Britain, 1 in 4 people will suffer with a mental health condition. Suicide is the biggest killer of men under the age of 35.

The focus will be on how we can to educate children and young adults to care for their mental health, in the same way we teach them to look after their physical health. I specifically wanted to use the story of Bess to appeal to boys and men, who historically have struggled to talk about and address matters of mental ill health.

It’s a cause close to my heart and something that has impacted me and members of my family. The full plan of how I’m going to do this still needs some work. But in that great tradition of starting with the end in mind, I intend for this to me much more than a simple* restoration.

Mind do amazing work. They provide support and advice that can empower anyone living with mental ill health, or indeed supporting people with mental health problems. You can listen to the president of Mind (and personal hero of mine) Stephen Fry below if you want to find out a little more. I’ll also put some handy web addresses and contact numbers on the links page of this site.

Why are we doing this? Well, it's simple. No one should live with a mental illness alone.


*I say simple… I’m pretty sure that this car is going to cause a great many complications, sleepless nights, unforeseen expense and general stress along the way. But I’m ready for it.

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